Merry Christmas, Salam Maal Hijrah, Selamat Tahun Baru!!!

Juz wanna wish those yang celebrate Christmas, Merry Christmas!!

Kepada yang muslim, selamat pergi tahun 1429, dan selamat datang tahun 1430.. Semoga tahun baru ni kita semua dikurniakan dengan segala kebaikan dan sentiasa dilindungi dunia dan akhirat..

Last but not least, Happy New Year 2009, mana2 yg azam tahun lepas tak tertunai tu, hopefully this year dapat ler ditunaikan.. Me?? Ada jugak leee.. Hehe.. Kene tanam azam baru and tekad yang baru jugak.. Gud luck to me!!

p/s: Happy Holidays to all of u.. Me tau, mesti ramai yg cuti dari Krismas sampai New Year kan?? Melampau korang nih!! =P

My Best Friend's Wedding

Last November was my best friend's wedding.. Tapi me tak pegi pun.. Ada hal apa ntah masa tu.. Neway, my friend, Farah namanye, telah selamat bernikah dengan Odd (nama Islamnye me lupe laa).. Farah nih actually my friend masa study kat UiTM Shah Alam dulu.. Same course, and duduk sebilik for about 2 years.. Heh.. Tak sangka minah ni berjaya mencekup Mat Saleh.. Hehehehehe.. Since me tak gi wedding dia, me pun takde la amik gambar kan.. But then, credit to Mrs. Farah, dia bagi me tengok gambar dia, so, me paste ler kat sini a few of her wedding pictures.. Let's cekidout! =)

Ni reception kat hotel for hubby's side lerr.. Takkan family dia nak buat kenduri sambut menantu kat Sweden sana lak kan?? Hehe.. Yup, her hubby originally from Sweden..

Ni plak reception kat rumah pengantin perempuan.. Very sweet kan??

ps: Sori dear, coz tak datang ur wedding.. Me doakan u bahagia hingga akhir hayat and buat banyak2 cute babies k??

Colleagues oh Colleagues...

Mmmm... me juz came back from Malacca, ada workshop.. But me tak pergi as a participant, but as a secretariat.. Since my department, Industry & Community Relations nih dept. baru, so our staff pun tak de laa ramai bangat.. So, most of us kene la pergi ke Melaka.. Tinggal la 2 ketul manusia yang ditugaskan untuk jaga ofis.. Itupun sebab dua2 pun mak buyung..

Neway, bile dah kene buat keje secara berkumpulan nih, baru ler bleh tau yang mana yang bleh diharap untuk buat keje, yang mana yang NATO (No Action, Talk Only!!), poning palo den haa.. Udahnye, me n a few colleagues je yang gigih buat keje.. Yang lain tuh, huh, baik takyah bawak.. Membazir duit bayar duit hotel diowang je.. Yang nak tido laa, yang penat laa.. Padahal keje takde buat pape pun..

Ada plak lagi, on the day itself MIA.. tak kol, orang nak kol pun tak dapat.. Haih.. Terbakar tul.. Alih2 last day kitorang kat Melaka baru nak kol, konon nak bagi justification, but then, orang dah tanak dengar, bcoz procedure nye, if u're absent, u have to call OFFICE on the day you're absent, bukannya bila2 ko rasa nak kol!! Hangin betol la orang camnih.. Dah la seblom nak pegi tu banyak demand.. Nak bawak laki, anak bagai.. Bila kite dah entertain, ilang pulak.. Pe punya manusia daaa.. Kalau tanak gi cakap ler awal2, tak nyusahkan orang, tak nyakitkan hati orang..

So, conclusionnya, in our next workshop, these few people memang dah blacklisted.. Tanak bawak!! Nyusahkan orang je.. Huhuhu.. Nape la ada orang camnih haaa...

1st Nite..

Yang baju merah tu, big boss.. our TNC

Guess which one's my boss?? Yang pegang cawan tu.. hehehe.. Sempoi..

Me n my boss, buat2 sibuk.. hehe..

The participants..

p/s: pe pun, this is a great experience for me.. :)

DO NOT LOOK BACK AND ASK WHY, LOOK FORWARD AND ASK WHY NOT

Mmmm... i got this article from my colleague.. Memang mendalam maknanya.. Ye laa, kite ni memang selalu je tak cukup dengan apa yang ada.. Selalu nampak apa yang orang lain ada tu lebih baik dari apa yang kita ada.. Dan selalu nak mengejar benda yang sebenarnya takde la hebat sangat, tapi nafsu mengaburi fikiran menyebabkan kita selalu lupa bahawa apa yang kita ada selama ni adalah yang terbaik.. Kita kena ingat apa yang Allah bagi tu, adalah yang terbaik untuk diri kita, sebab Dia yang menjadikan kita, maka Dia lebih tahu apa yang terbaik untuk hambaNya.. Neway, jom baca article yang me dapat tu..

"In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.

But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT. But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had. Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. 'Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not'

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature.

You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: 'I broke my arm yesterday, Hahahaha . . ..'

Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have.
Don't throw away the 80% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.
But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.
I'm talking about life!
About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? 'They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!'

I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class -- because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?

The main message???
If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, you are first class!"

moral of the story: always appreciate what u already have & sentiasa bersyukur dengan apa yang ada..

ps: my mother selalu pesan, jangan bandingkan diri dengan orang kat 'atas', kita akan rasa kita nih kerdil, serba tak cukup.. bandingkan dengan orang kat 'bawah', kita akan rasa kita nih cukup2 bertuah dan lebih bersyukur dengan apa yang kita ada..

baby pun pandai bersyukur, takkan kiter takleh kot?? ekekekeke..

Ma Precious..

Mmmm.. Wat is the most precious thing in my life?? Of course my consiousness (kalau x, xbernyawa la me nih!!), my parents, my frens.. But now i want to story about 2 precious persons yang me baru dapat.. siapa?? My hubby and son!! Yup.. this is the 2 persons yang me sangat2 sayang dan sangat2 hargai skang..

Dulu2 masa me blom kawin, life agak sronok jugak.. Keluar ngan gugurl sumer, lepak2 dari malam sampai pagi.. bebas.. takde commitment.. satu2nye commitment pun, study.. lain2 tu sibuk bersuke ria, paling tak pun keluar ngan boyfriend..

But now, since dah married, baru tau erti tanggungjawab yang sebenar, baru tau erti belanja berhemah (cuih!! seblom nih boros je..) baru tau erti berkongsi hidup, and macam2 lagi laaa.. And since my son was born (May 2007), rasa life ni sangat bermakna giteww.. Tengok dia membesar depan mata, dia ketawa, dia nangis, dia ngada.. hepi sangat!! Kengkadang rasa macam tak percaya that now i'm married with my beloved husband and having a son wit him.. (sebab dulu masa bercinta memang banyak kontroversi.. kawin gak akhirnyee!! hehehehe)...

So kengkawan, sesapa pun yang u ols sayang, hargai la while they still alive.. Buat la apape pun to show ur appreciation.. Walaupun juz by saying i love you.. I'm sure they will appreciate u back...

Abah je yang lebih2

Ini ler 2 precious persons for me...

Suke sangat menyakat budak tu, geram kengkadang!!

BORING!!!

Haih... Bosan giler lak hari nieh.. tak tau nak watpe.. Boss pun dah keluar.. Harus tak masuk dah.. Nak surf tenet pun dah tak tau nak surf ape.. Ape laaaa boring sangat lak ni?? Nak balik ar camni.. Hehehe.. Bleh ke??

Tu la kan?? Dulu ingat lagi masa zaman2 keje kat dalam field Customer Service, jangan harap ler nak camnih.. Takde masa nak rasa bosan pun.. Sik kene jawab call.. Huhuhu.. Nak terkucil pun kengkadang takde masa.. hehehehe.. busuk tull!!

Dulu me, Daybab ngan Rena keje satu ofis.. Ofis yang sangat hampeh, sangat membencikan, sangat sangat sangat sangat eiiiiii, takleh nak describe ar.. Memang sangat menyakitkan hati.. Kat mana? Biar ler kitorang je yang tau.. Hehehe.. Dan satu2nya benda yang membuat kitorang bertahan, kawan2 lerr..

Tapi satu hari, me dah tak tahan.. Siyes tensen!! Dengan management macam bengong, customer lagi la hampeh... Tidak!! So me decide, enuff is enuff.. Me nak benti keje.. So pagi2 tu datang dengan semangat yang berkobar giler, siap dah bawak resignation letter, lepak kat pantry tunggu Daybab ngan Rena.. Memula Rena sampai, terus me citer nak resign.. Rena terus tanya, biar betul?? Iyer la.. betul la, takkan tipu kot??

Tak lama pastu tu Daybab pun sampai.. Rena terus citer yang me nak benti.. Tapi me terkejut.. tetiba Daybab leh nangis!! (tak sangka me, Daybab nangis??) Huhuhuhu.. terharu sungguh me masa tu.. pastu Rena pun taknak kalah, merah dah mata tuh.. ekekeke.. sayang gak diowang kat me kan?? tapi pe nak buat, me memang dah nekad giler nak benti..

So, masa diowang gi log-in, me terus jumpe Mei Ching, bagi surat.. Pastu ada la beberapa orang dok cube memujuk me takyah benti.. Soh me pk betul2.. But there's no turning back.. Makanye, diowang juz soh me jawab light calls je & petang tu lepak le ngan Daybab & Rena kat cafe meraikan hari last me kat situ..

Tapi tu citer dulu, skang Rena pun dah dapat keje gomen, & Daybab pun dah keje (eh, ko keje mana aaa??) tapi tempat lain laaaa.. Dah tak keje dah kat *** tu.. Akhirnyeee, dapat jugak kite kuar dari keje2 melayan customer nih kan girls?? Neway, miss u all..

ps: Rindu ler nak makan aiskim potong.. hehehehe..

Punch Card..

Alkisahnye, me nih keje gomen.. So everytime masuk keje mmg ler kene punch card.. But then punch card tempat me canggih sket ler, bukan ler pakai kad kaler kuning tuh.. bile punch bunyik 'ktakkk!' tuh.. bukannnn.. ofis me nih punch card kat pc je..

Ni contoh punch card zmn tok kadok.. Me nyer bkn cmni ea..

Nway, the story goes bile 1 of my colleagues nih mmg slalu dtg lambat.. n tukang punch nye?? ME lerrr... baik betul aku me nih kan?? almost tetiap pagi anto msg "Fiza, can u plz punch for me?? Tq.." Memula, ada lagi ler lagi belas kesian.. Tp lelama, amboi naik lemak lak minah nih.. Dah le lambat, dtg melenggang kangkung, sengih2 mcm kerang busuk.. Yg me nih rushing kuar umah, carik parking, juz to make sure sempat punch card.. Adil ke??

So ari nih, me cannot take it anymore!! Dengan lemah lembut nye me gitau dia, "*****, if u think u're not able to come to the office on time, may I suggest that u take waktu anjal.. I rasa xbest ler slalu sgt TOLONG punch utk u.." then u know what she said?? "takpe la fiza, nxt time ***** x mtk tolong lagi.." haih.. majuk ler pulak!! aku yg patut marah ke dia?? konfius...

And me being so nice, pujuk ler dia.. baik kan me nih?? hehehehehe.. then dia kata it's ok, i was rite.. u bet i'm rite!! so settle la satu problem me kat ofis nih.. Walaupun dia still masam ngan me, wat the heck kan?? yang penting...misi berjaya!!

moral of the story: buat baik berpada-pada le lain kali yer.. baik sgt pun org pijak kepale..

My 1st Post!!!

Sebenarnye before nieh takde la interested sangat nak tulis2 blog ni.. But then, me see ramai gak kengkawan yang ada blog sendiri & it is quite interesting to read their stories.. So, 1 of my friends, si Daybab suggest that me open my own blog so that me can write watever yg me rasa..

So, officially, this is my blog & hopefully me have lots of things that me can share wit my friends & other people.. And to Daybab, as u're d 1 who encourage me to write my own blog, ko WAJIB baca blog aku tau!! ekekekekeke..

Welcome Y'all!!!